How To Get Your Girl Back

There's nothing more devastating than losing the one you gave your heart to. This can become a source of emotional and even physical pain.

This has no doubt happened to me before and I for one knows how it feels. I've made all the mistakes there is to be made and I'm going to tell you what not to do.

It doesn't matter who caused the break up. What is important to know is that you can get your girl back no matter the reason for the break up.

Most guys when they get dumped will make all the mistakes in the book, they go a little crazy for a while and this is the reason why most people never make back up.

Some common mistakes are:

• professing your undying love
• text messaging your girl all the time
• asking for the truth
• asking if they have someone else
• drunk dialling

Basically, being a pest. Don't feel bad if you're guilty of some of these or even all...its pretty normal and happens to a lot of people.
Instead of doing all of the above, the big 'secret' is to do the opposite. The first move you should make if you want to get your girl back is to...
Agree with the break up!
This may sound crazy but it makes a lot of sense. You don't want her to be the one in control of the situation or else she will have her way - and her way is to break up with you.

So...

She says, "I've had enough of this. I don't think we should see each other any more."

It comes as a total shock to you, but you calmly breathe and say...

"Yeah, I'm glad you bought this up because I've been thinking the same thing too. I was actually wanting to talk to you about this. I think this is the best thing for the both of us"

Am I crazy?

No. Firstly, she's now confused. Are you dumping her or is she dumping you? You're both on the same page and there's nothing a woman likes more than a strong, in control man.

Ok, so you've made all the mistakes before and past that stage.

So how do you get your girl back then?

The first thing you want to do is to write a short handwritten letter...it has to be handwritten...that means no texting, no emailing and no typing. If you don't know what to write, you can get a prewritten letter when you purchase TW Jackson's Magic of Making Up book.

The letter should let them know that you are sorry for what you did and that you're going to give them the space they wanted.

After you're given them the letter, do exactly what the letter said...leave them alone and give them the space. In short, you're letting them go.

Don't be afraid that letting her go means that you're giving up. You're actually helping out the situation. This move is extremely helpful and puts you where you want to be in the eyes of your girl.